My favorite line from The Help is "You is kind, You is smart, You is important". I love this quote. It is so honest and the broken English adds to its sincerity. Not only does Aiblileen take care of her "babies" by bathing and clothing and feeding them, she loves them. It's sad but the children she nannied got more love from her than they did from their own mothers. Which can sometimes apply to today. My mom is a stay at home mom, but I don't think that's the choice for me. I, like many women if the United States, want to juggle work and my family. So while we work, someone has to be taking care of our kids. Hopefully, we all have someone caring and loving and devoted like Aibileen, but hopefully we too are nurturing and enriching and loving as well. I just hope that I have a greater influence on my children than their daycare teachers.
Although Aibileen is critical of the self-centered ways of the white people she serves, she never holds prejudices against the kids. She loves them so much. I like the insight I get from this book on the lifestyles of the people she nannies for. It is so easy to be critical of other people when we read books. The kid is the Blind Side had no friends and I would watch that and think that if he were real, I would be friends with him for sure. He was such a sweetheart, so nice. But then I look at all the people at school with no friends, not to be mean. And I’m not befriending them am I? Im sure they are just as nice as Blindside. So when I see criticisms in books I try to analyze my life and make sure I’m not doing the same thing, only maybe not rudely ordering around my help, but possibly not valuing those who voluntarily help me.